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Christian ≠ Christ-Follower

Christian ≠ Christ-Follower
The teachings of Jesus emphasize loving one's enemies and neighbors as oneself, yet these principles often seem to be at odds with the messages preached in some Christian settings. While Jesus advocated for unconditional love, many church teachings focus on judgment and the identification of enemies, ranging from political groups to different religious denominations. This discrepancy highlights a significant challenge in aligning the preached word with the actual teachings of Christ.

The concept of love as defined in 1 Corinthians 13—patient, kind, and devoid of envy or pride—stands in stark contrast to the punitive and self-righteous attitudes sometimes found within religious communities. True love, as described, does not keep score or insist on its own way, suggesting that practices like legislating morality or condemning others to eternal hell are antithetical to the essence of love. If God is love, as stated in 1 John, then these loving attributes should be reflected in the actions and beliefs of those who claim to follow Him.

Following Christ does not necessitate identifying as a Christian; rather, it is the practice of unconditional love that defines true discipleship. Leaving behind a system that discourages critical thinking and promotes division can lead to a deeper understanding of what it means to love without enemies. This journey, though challenging, fosters personal healing and the realization that perceived enemies are often constructs that can be unlearned, paving the way for a more loving and inclusive worldview.
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Finding My Voice Again: Writing for Those Who Listen

Finding My Voice Again: Writing for Those Who Listen
For years, I believed my voice didn’t matter—discarded letters, ignored emails, and unanswered words reinforced that painful message. But through healing, mindset shifts, and hypnotherapy, I reclaimed my voice. In this personal reflection, I share my journey of overcoming self-doubt, understanding the power of focus, and choosing to write for those who truly listen. If you've ever felt unheard, this one's for you.
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